Tuesday, November 15, 2011

The Tipping Point

OMG. I have been supportive of the 99% movement because I do not like that billionaires’ net worth has gone up almost 300% in the last year while millions of hard-working Americans struggle to make ends meet, but now I am on the verge of truly being disgusted.

Today I read that Bank of America and other big banks are making money by charging fees to those who have no choice but to use pre-paid cards to receive their unemployment benefits. Charging fees to people who are stuck receiving their unemployment checks one way — through an ATM — is a new low.

I am not anti-corporation. I am not anti-profit. But there is a point where the profit motive slides down into total and complete greed at the expense of human beings. I am anti-greed. Where is the line between profit and greed? I don’t know, but it’s crystal clear to me that we’ve crossed it.

I do not advocate socialism. I don’t think the wealthy should pay for everything and the less fortunate should just receive. I do, however, believe a few things:

Corporations are not people. Period.

Taxes should be proportionate to wealth (i.e., fair).

Lobbyists should be regulated and transparent.

Congress, the President, and the Supreme Court should all be held to the same laws and regulations that the rest of the USA is.

Government for the people, of the people, and by the people.

No company is too big to fail. If a company fails, that’s the company’s problem. If unethical or illegal activities precipitated the failure, the guilty parties should be incarcerated (after a fair trial).

Servicemen and servicewomen (and their families) should be protected from any and all hardship related to the soldier’s service. There should be no adversity whatsoever for anyone who is willing to serve all of us in the most dangerous way.

The United States of America I want to see cares about all of its citizens (regardless of net worth), but also expects everyone to pull up their bootstraps and make their own way in the world. I would love to see a real connection between hard work and financial security. Too many people work harder than I’ll ever know and still have struggles I will never understand.


If you don’t want to work, that is your choice. Just don’t expect anything to be handed to you. If you run a multi-billion dollar corporation and feel entitled to keep making money hand over fist, that’s fine too. Just remember that you shouldn’t expect anything to be handed to you either.

Elizabeth Warren said it the best. “There is nobody in this country who got rich on his own. Nobody. You built a factory out there — good for you! But I want to be clear. You moved your goods to market on the roads the rest of us paid for. You hired workers the rest of us paid to educate. You were safe in your factory because of police forces and fire forces that the rest of us paid for. You didn’t have to worry that marauding bands would come and seize everything at your factory, and hire someone to protect against this, because of the work the rest of us did. Now look, you built a factory and it turned into something terrific, or a great idea — God bless. Keep a big hunk of it. But part of the underlying social contract is you take a hunk of that and pay forward for the next kid who comes along.”




Tuesday, September 06, 2011

Mustard seeds and 9/11

Early in my experience with Soto Zen Buddhism, I heard a story about a woman who went to the Buddha after her child died. She asked him to bring her child back. He told the woman that he would indeed bring her child back to life, but she had to do something first. She had to get one tiny little mustard seed and bring it to the Buddha. However, this mustard seed had to come from a household that did not know pain, suffering, or loss.

She headed out to find this household and get that mustard seed so she could get her child back. Before long, she realized that she was not going to find a household that did not know pain, suffering, or loss and would therefore not get her mustard seed. The Buddha’s lesson dawned on her. She ended her search for the mustard seed and went on with her life.

I certainly don’t think that this story can make anyone feel better about feeling pain, but it does illustrate the First Noble Truth; to live means to suffer.

I have known something about myself for most of my life—I can be oversensitive at times. Seeing pain and suffering around me comes easily. I reflect on the story of the woman with the Buddha, but also on the other three Noble Truths (the origin of suffering is attachment, the cessation of suffering is attainable, following the Eighfold Path is the way to end suffering).

This is all in the forefront of my life now that we’re approaching the 10th anniversary of September 11. Certainly, this was the most horrible day of my life and the lives of countless others. My heart gets heavy when I see and hear reminders of this event.

I find myself asking, “Why?” Why does there have to be such pain? Why does there have to be such hate? My heart breaks when I think of the people who were doing things I do all the time (going to work, flying on a plane, etc.) and they simply did not live to see the end of the day.

Because to live means to suffer.

Death causes pain because of our attachment to life. I am not saying that we should not respect the gift that is life, but that perhaps clinging to it too tightly can make separating from it worse than it could be. It does not help that we truly do not know what happens after death. Is there a heaven? Is there nothing? We do not know (and we never will). Oops – that “need to know” is an example of more clinging!

So. How does one deal with all the pain? I need to reflect on this now more than usual so I can handle this terrible anniversary and remain intact. I could start by living in the moment. Just now, nothing else. I can appreciate the gift of life and remember that it is certainly a temporary state. (“…we’re only immortal for a limited time.” ~ Rush, Dreamline)

I can also pray for peace. I can be an example of non-hatred toward Muslims (9/11 was not a Muslim act despite opinions otherwise). I can remember those who were lost. I can live my life, not allowing this or any other event to move me from my chosen path. We all know pain, suffering, and loss. We are all one.

Monday, August 29, 2011

Which is worse?

Would you rather be a sensitive person who feels pain when witnessing the suffering of others, or a non-feeling person who doesn’t?

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Where are we going, and why are we in this handbasket?

I am trying to remind myself that the times we are in are in flux - as change is the only "permanent" thing there is.

I am sure this is not the only time in US history in which there was such divisiveness, but it seems like the people elected to serve us have simply forgotten who their constituents truly are, IMHO.

Corporations are people? No, they are not. Not even close. Corporations are an important part of our economy and have value, but to place that value equal to that of an actual human being is ridiculous.

I just want things to be more fair. Even one of the most wealthy people on Earth, Warren Buffet, wants things to be more fair. Not socialist - FAIR. The distribution of wealth in the US and the world is too off kilter. I don't believe in handouts, but is it asking too much for those with the most to pay taxes like everyone else? (Perhaps a flat tax rate for all?) I am not saying the rich should pay more than their fair share.

Just fair. Of course, I am sure my definition of "fair" may not be the same as others'. (Sigh.)

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Jim Thome

I am thrilled that I was watching the Twins game yesterday. They won (which is always nice), but I also got to witness Jim Thome's 599th and 600th home runs live (on TV).

I have not always liked to hear that Jim Thome was up to bat... then again, he used to play against the Twins for many years. I always respected him, but feared him when he would bat against us.

Then he became a Twin - hurray! Now I would drop whatever I was doing to watch his at-bats. Not just because he was inching his way to home run number 600, but just because he could do damage to the opposition's defense.

I believe in my heart of hearts that Jim Thome got to this incredible milestone honestly (unlike Sosa, Bonds, or even perhaps Rodriguez). So, IMHO, Thome is the fifth player to reach 600, not the eighth.

Hurray Jim Thome! Thanks for showing us how to hit 'em out with class.

Monday, August 15, 2011

Has it been over a year?



Yes, I am a terrible blogger. I admit it. I've got some catching up to do!

Here's a summary of the past year:







  • I got a contract position writing and editing at the Really Big Bank (yes, the same Really Big Bank that eliminated my position). Hey - I would have laid me off too - it was a business decision and I have absolutely no ill will.



  • The Husband and I went to London in September 2010 to celebrate a major milestone anniversary. Quite a lovely town, this London! Great pubs too.



  • Our beautiful Monti passed away in November. Kidney disease, just like his sister Beau. Sadness. Monti was the one who loved (and needed) attention. So un-catlike, but fun just the same.



  • In March 2011, we were ready to adopt again. Enter Sam and Stella, our new kitties! They were abandoned in a vacant apartment (people can really suck sometimes!). They are quick to purr and fun to watch. They are one month apart (Sam's the elder) and he'll turn one year old around late September or early October. Sam is the orange cat and Stella is the dark striped cat.

I'll try not to wait another year before posting again!